A friend said this to me as the heating went on: “It’s getting cold, and every warm thing I own goes over my head.” The cardigan is the first answer to that, before the clip tank, before anything you have to buy. Buttoned to the middle it is a sweater. Unbuttoned from the bottom it is a feed, with the top still closed and your shoulders still warm. I did a whole second winter in three cardigans and did not once feed on a cold bench with a jumper round my neck.

Here are ten cardigan outfits, every one pictured below. Brown, black, charcoal, grey, and the cream one with black trim that makes everything look like money. Over a shirt dress, over jeans, over a pleated skirt, as half of a knit set. Every one opens; every one is probably in your closet already.

1. The brown cardigan over a black shirt dress

A brown ribbed cardigan over a black belted shirt dress and a nude wireless bra, a striped scarf, a gold watch, ivory sneakers and a black bag. Two layers that both open: the cardigan from the bottom, the dress from the top. The autumn christening, or the lunch you want to look rested for.

2. The charcoal cardigan with grey jeans and a camel scarf

A charcoal ribbed cardigan buttoned over a black bra, grey wide-leg jeans with a belt, a camel-striped scarf, ivory sneakers and a tan tote. Unbutton from the bottom, lift, clip the tank. The school-run cardigan for most of October.

3. The black knit jacket with black cargo trousers and sandals

A black boxy knit cardigan-jacket with gold buttons, black cargo trousers, tan crossover sandals, a striped scarf and a brown watch. All black with tan at the feet. The dressed-up cardigan for the warm end of the season, and the one that hides every mark.

4. The black cardigan with a black pleated midi and boots

A fine black crew cardigan buttoned to the middle, a black pleated midi skirt with an elastic waist, black croc ankle boots, a cream scarf and a small ivory bag. All black with cream near the face. The dinner-out outfit for winter; the scarf is the cover at the table.

5. The cream cardigan with black trim over white trousers

The cream short-sleeved knit cardigan with black trim and gold buttons, white wide-leg trousers, black heeled ankle boots, a striped scarf. The piece that makes an outfit look expensive on any budget. Unbutton from the bottom; the tank under it does the rest. White trousers are for the day the baby is elsewhere.

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6. The black knit jacket over a grey knit dress

The black knit cardigan-jacket over a grey ribbed scoop-neck knit dress and a nude bra, brown ankle boots, a striped scarf and a tan tote. The scoop pulls down over a tank; the jacket stays on open. One dress, one layer, warm.

7. The cream cardigan with camel shorts and boots

The cream cardigan with black trim over a tank, camel shorts with a soft waist, black heeled boots, the striped scarf. Shorts with boots and a smart cardigan is the September outfit, and the soft waist sits above a scar.

8. The black cardigan over a black lace skirt with heels

A black cropped cardigan buttoned over a tank, a black lace midi skirt with an elastic waist, black patent heels, gold earrings and a bracelet, a black watch and a black bag. The wedding-guest cardigan. Unbutton from the bottom under the table; nobody will know.

9. The grey knit set over a black tank

A grey cropped knit cardigan with its matching wide-leg knit trousers over a black tank and bra, a black and white printed scarf, a brown watch, ivory sneakers and a tan tote. The set that reads as effort and feels like Sunday. The cardigan opens; the tank clips.

10. The cream cardigan under a black blazer with white trousers

The cream cardigan with black trim under a black blazer, white trousers, black heeled boots, the striped scarf. Two layers that both open, which is what the mamas I interviewed for the Back to Work capsule wore on the first cold day back. Blazer closed for the room, cardigan unbuttoned for the eleven o’clock.

Ten cardigans, and the thing I want you to notice is that none of them is a nursing cardigan. The ordinary one from before, buttoned to the middle, is already the best nursing layer you own. Add a clip tank under it for the days you want the top half covered too, and the cold months stop being the hard ones.

Every piece here is one of the ordinary shapes in the Year Round Capsule, where fall and winter are a hundred outfits between them, laid out and then worn, with three pictures of you in them on the house. Breastfeeding-friendly fall essentials is the rest of the cold-weather drawer. And if you want someone who knows your closet to pick the cardigan each morning, that is Anah inside the Atelier.

Button it to the middle. That is the whole trick. The focus is on you, mama.